In case you missed it, at our last Keystones of Development Speaker Series, Rebecca Parlakian, Senior Director of Programs at ZERO TO THREE, highlighted a common challenge: the "expectations gaps." Many parents expect more from their toddlers than their developmental stage can support - especially when it comes to impulse control, emotional regulation, and decision-making.

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As providers, we can bridge this gap by setting realistic expectations during visits. Try saying:

• "Your toddler's brain is still developing - especially the parts that help them control emotions and behavior,"
• "It's not about being 'bad' - it's about being not yet ready."

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This shift helps parents approach tough moments with more patience and empathy, instead of frustration.

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How do you explain developmental milestones to help parents reframe challenging behavior?