Teaching children about safety isn't a one-time conversation — it grows with them, from car seat rules as toddlers to knowing when to call for help as teens. Starting early with simple, age-appropriate concepts like body autonomy and checking in before going anywhere gives children tools they can build on for years. Reassure parents that most harms to children comes from someone familiar, not a stranger, so open communication matters more than "stranger danger" warnings alone.

Here are a few tips to offer parents:

• Teach body autonomy: Let children choose how they greet relatives (hug, high fives, or wave) so they learn their body belongs to them.
• Set a simple rule: Teach kids to always check with a parent before going anywhere or accepting anything, no matter who is asking.
• Practice through pretend play: Ask playful "what if" questions, like what to do if a stranger offers to show them a puppy, to build safe habits without fear.
• Encourage open telling:  Use correct names for body parts and remind children they won't get in trouble for telling a parent if something feels wrong.
• Memorize the basics: Around age 3 encourage parents to teach children their full name and a parent's phone number, and go over a meeting spot before busy outings.
• Look for a family with kids: Teach children that if they get lost, the safest person to ask for help is a stranger who has children with them.

Try printing THIS HANDOUT for parents for more information on teaching kids about safety.