It’s normal for children to observe what is the same and what is different, and to point out differences - even in public. This can be hard for parents, and lead to anger or embarrassment. Here are 3 phrases you can try with parents in your next visit to help open up an important dialogue about perspective and understanding:

“Your toddler is super curious. That is an important part of learning, and a great sign in development. They aren’t trying to be rude or embarrass you.”

“When you are open to all of your child’s questions, it helps them to keep coming to you. If they feel like there are “bad questions” or ones that make you uncomfortable, they are less likely to feel safe asking you in the future.”

“Your child looks to you to model how to treat others who appear different. Try talking openly about celebrating different cultures, traditions, bodies, and beliefs whenever you can.”